How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:22

How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What I need from you?

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.